Multiples??? does this sound possible?

Lmp may 4th. Ovulation was 19th. Bd on 11th, 15th, 17th, 19th, 22nd, 23rd, 25th. I had a faint positive a couple days ago. Took another test yesterday with FMU and was negative. AF has not shown. No spotting or cramping. Talked to my dr and scheduled to see her in a few days. Told her about pos then neg but no spotting or cramping. She mentioned that since multiples run on both sides it is possible that I was preggo with multiples which triggered an early pos but had chem preg with one which is why neg now. She's thinking I am still preggo with at least one. Has anyone heard of this before? Don't want to get my hopes up unnecessarily. Any opinions are appreciated.

How much should I pay my friend for her letting me use her house?

She and hubby are both gone for weeks, so we are staying in their house while we wait for ours to become available (we're military, just moved) and we can get the mail, move her car, ect. Of course their super nice and expect nothing but I want to give them some money for their kindness. In this base housing you don't have regular utility bill. We're staying here for 2 weeks. What would you personally do?

I'm getting fat but I like it?

I've always been slim but it's fair to say over the last few months I've gotten a bit big. Over winter I adopted some unhealthy eating habits that have carried on throughout the year adding about 30lbs to my weight making me around 185lbs. The only negative is my rapidly expanding waistline and the fact I spend a lot of my allowance on snacks and food. I never used to care for food much but now it all seems so tasty! I can happily eat through loads of biscuits and cakes, I now eat 3 chocolate cream filled eclairs everyday without fail, I know I shouldn't but they taste so damn nice. The only person who makes critical remarks is my mum as she says she doesn't want a fat son and she's tired of buying me bigger and bigger clothes. Like she keeps grabbing my new fat and telling me to get rid. I don't really care about my weight so is this a problem?

Why do older girls seem to be more interested in me?

Iam like 18 years old. I don't know what it is but older women seem to like me more. Girls around my age seem to not care or not be interested in me. Sometimes in a while a random girl will pop into my life and seem to care..but those moments are so quick so limited and unexpected. But anyways...Girls around the ages 20+ seem to like me. They treat me with respect, they sound very nice and all.lol Their kindness and and all is a huge turn on for me. But why? Girls my age are sour and mean. Why are these older women hitting on me?lol It's cute but im lookin' for a girl around my age.lol Maybe it's not bad. .lol Maybe I should give em' (her) a chance..?

Why did the Indiana Supreme Court rule in favor of Police State tactics?

This court ruling is so disturbing, I can't begin to comprehend what the justices were thinking when they issued this ruling.

Is it strange to email a teacher?

I just graduated and didn't have a chance to say goodbye to my favorite teacher. I had her class for three consecutive years and was in her homeroom for two of them. She is a really sweet women who I am truly going to miss. We have all the teachers' work emails so we can contact them if we have issues with assignments. I kind of want to email her a thank you for all the kindness she showed me and help she gave over the past three years. do you think this is inappropriate?

What is a synonym for 'no homo' ? ?

Ok so like i get on those websites which are basically unnecessarily public text messages [Facebook , Twitter . Etc] and i'll see this girl around and she'll be taalking to females and will say something along the lines of ' [No Lady Love]' whenever she says something that can be construed into something homo sexual . And i been looking for another word for 'no homo' for a while now , before i even seen the girl and i want to kno is there any caatchy saayings you guys usee instead of no homo? No i have nothing against homo sexuals they aree great and more fun to be around . I just dont want the nosey ppl to get the wrong idea you kno lol so is there anything catchy that you guys can come up with besides 'no homo' ?

Is my gf flirting with her best friend?

Remember the old saying : ' Out of sight,Out of mind". You should have weighed the pros and cons and gave more importance and priority as per your choice. No remedy you have left the string loose and have to ber the fruits of the same. Even if you had married her, the same thing would have happened. Better change your attitude towards life and make up your mind and start afresh.

I like my best friends boyfriend.?

I've liked this guy (lets call him collin) since about the eighth grade. Since then hes been dating my now best friend "sue". Im now a sophomore. Lately hes been EXTREMELY flirty including hugging me unnecessarily tightly including putting his hand over my chest area, putting his arm around me, and doing cute little things in thr hallway at school like blowing my hair. Last year we sort of had a thing, he and my friend even broke up over me. I thoughtvi was over him but its even more clear to me that i feel like hes who im supposed to be with. Were also going to the same college. What should i do? Ignore it and move on or flirt back and try to win him over to me?

Why do people adopt pitbulls?

I saw someone ask a question on here a while ago asking for advice on getting a rescue pit.... I'm kinda confused... like i love dogs? But I don't get it. There's tons of breeds out there that arent as dog aggressive and you dont have to worry about dog encounters and all of that.... there are breeds that wont turn on you and breeds that dont kill kids so im just curious why do people consider adopting a pitbull?

How do you adopt a child from the state?

I know you have to sign some papers, have a home check, and have an interview with a case worker and the child you are wanting to adopt. But what elsa? Also what are the requirements?

Should I go on vacation if I expect a job interview call soon?

I put in an application for a job that I really, really want. This is an extremely competitive position, and I am one of a handful of people who know about it and applied. I am feeling confident that I'll be called for an interview soon. The problem is, I'm leaving on a cruise in 11 days. Should I just cancel it now or do I try to explain the situation to them if they want me to come in on a date when I'll be away? I'm worried that asking them to work around my trip might cost me the job, but I don't want to cancel my trip and lose a lot of money unnecessarily, either.

Adopting a rescue pitbull advice?

Hello! I'm thinking of adopting a pitbull from a rescue. I don't have any kids, it's just me and my boyfriend. We both love dogs. I have owned a border collie and a jack russel in the past. Does anyone have any experience with rescue pitbulls? What to expect? Things to be aware of?

How do I do I date girls when I'm in the closet?

I am a sixteen year old bisexual girl who is a Junior in high school. Is it normal to try to hide it:/? My close friends know, but that's about it. I've been asked out by girls before, but I declined because I am afraid people would find out. Sometimes I fantasize about moving up to San Fransisco for college and settling down with a woman later on, adopting a baby when we get older. I know it sounds silly. I really do like men, but I get along better with woman, although I like men's bodies better. Does this sound stupid? Agh. How do I date girls without other people knowing? My friends are more than okay with it,happy even. My Mom is embaressed of it and says that God is unhappy with my liking girls. My brother just says that it would be better to come out of the closet Senior year or in college, when people are more accepting. (only my brother and Mom know in my family)

I think my dogs Stomach has turned...?

We recently adopted a German Shepherd and he is 11 months old, he loves water (drinking it) and always gets excited when we get his food ready. He loves to play fetch etc, but now he won't do any of the above... Play, Eat, Drink. Unfortunately we lost a main source of income and cannot afford to take him to a vet... I love him to death and id do anything for him, he moans a lot when he just lays there, is there ANYTHING I can do for home treatment?

How do I provide full name verification?

I'm going to be applying for a learner's permit at the DMV and they said I need to provide my full name verification. They said examples of this are: Adoption documents, name change documents, marriage certificate but I don't have any of these because I wasn't adopted, never changed my name, and not married. What else can I bring to verify my name?

Does anyone get this joke?

Her legs haven't been opened and its meant to stay like that! But I don't find it that funny though.

I need someones help.?

My biological father left my mother and I when I turned two years old. I'm 16 now. When I was a kid, I enjoyed going over to his house but now that I'm older he's starting to act like a "jerk" ( I know it's not right to call your father that but it's true.) Whenever I see him, he always bickers with me about anything and everything. I don't start the bickering, he does. He says a lot of unnecessarily things like "You need to lose weight", "Did you gain weight", "Why don't you take care of yourself", or "doesn't your mother know how to go shopping" None of this is true, he's always finding ways to put me down. Why is he acting like this and what should I do?

Is it possible that my dog is mistaking me for my identical twin?

While I'm on deployment, my best friend back home is babysitting my dog for me. He's about 11 1/2 months old now. I knew it would be sort of rough on the dog but after this deployment, I'll get him back and no more deployments for me. So question being, my twin brother stops in about every other weekend or so and my buddy says my dog just cries and cries and begs for my brothers attention. Then after he leaves, my dog will continue to cry for the next day or so. He also is having problems being in the crate. Won't stop whining but he was never like that with me. (I adopted him when he was roughly 8/9 weeks old and had him up until early May) Is it possible he's confusing him for me? I thought dogs recognized humans by smell? My buddy also has a dog and will separating them for a few months after 8 months affect both dogs? That will only be temporary after my return cause I don't have service time left. Also, my brother does show my dog love and treats him as if he were me because of the crying. Hoping this all made sense

Financial Aid... can it happen?

Contact the financial aid office and make an appointment to meet with someone to help you determine if you qualify for financial aid or not. You possibly have a chance for grants (grants you don't pay back) as well as possibly loans. The only way to find out is to fill out the free FAFSA form all universities have. Good luck!

I'm getting fat but I like it?

I've always been slim but it's fair to say over the last few months I've gotten a bit big. Over winter I adopted some unhealthy eating habits that have carried on throughout the year adding about 30lbs to my weight making me around 185lbs. The only negative is my rapidly expanding waistline and the fact I spend a lot of my allowance on snacks and food. I never used to care for food much but now it all seems so tasty! I can happily eat through loads of biscuits and cakes, I now eat 4 chocolate cream filled eclairs everyday without fail, I know I shouldn't but they taste so damn nice. The only person who makes critical remarks is my mum as she says she doesn't want a fat son and she's tired of buying me bigger and bigger clothes. Like she keeps grabbing my new fat and telling me to get rid. I don't really care about my weight so is this a problem?

Why would she let me kiss her if she wasn't going to react at all?

i'm guessing she is feeling lonely and thats why she kissed u. she must love u too much as a friend and she doesn't want to lose u as a friend. things do get ugly when u start dating ur friend. u don't want to lose a good friend for something like that. good luck

What is a good scanning resolution for Anime drawings?

Ive been drawing anime on paper then scanning them to computer to color or add effects using GIMP but i used 2400 dpi but when i do that it puts a large strain on my computer and it makes it harder to put on deviant art or add color. what would be a better resolution i wanted to keep it large so its easier to edit and put detail into, just without making it unnecessarily too large, any suggestions?

I feel like these "auditory hallucinations" are fake...?

Auditory hallucinations and hearing voices are the same thing, just different terminology. Only those with psychosis or schizophrenia do this.

ADOBE AFTER EFFECTS CS4 HELP!!!?

okay so I made this really sick edit and I went to render it and it was jacked up my first layer was small and my second was huge both of them were playing at the same time how do i make so its like a a normal vid one layer at a time plays when render it. ugh i hate cs4 it's so unnecessarily complex

What is the name of this movie?!?

all i remember is that i there was a little boy and a little girl that were brother and sister. the little girl might have been adopted but im pretty sure she was sexually abused. she took everything out on her younger brother and at one point pushed him down the stairs and started slamming his head against the con create floor. the title is something to do with a hear or a rose i think but im probably wrong.

Is christianity necessarily a judgemental faith?

I know christians who have a nasty personality and quite questionable scruples. I even know non-christians who are nicer than they are. Isn't christianity about compassion and kindness as well as sticking to rules?

Do bugs and animals have souls?

There is no such thing as a soul. Humans ARE animals. They all have feelings of some kind, they all have a sensation of pain, whether they acknowledge it in the same way as the great apes, we will probably never know. If an animal reacts to a stimulus that is potentially life threatening, then yes, they feel it.

Does it make you sad as you witness people lining up for hell?

Yes I feel bad for them and we should constantly be praying for them- and living our lives as Christ would want us to, with love for one another.

Can I complain about my upstairs neighbors?

I have complained about stomping and his kids jumping around and yelling and screaming and that, for the most part, has gotten taken care of. My only issue still with this guy is when his kids aren't there his girlfriend is. She is VERY loud in the bedroom, unnecessarily so, and sounds fake to me. It's always at the most random times too, 2am, 4am....when most normal people are trying to sleep to get ready for work the next day. I just don't know if this is something I can complain about, b/c frankly their sex life is their sex life...but it is interupting my sleep and sanity.

How long is a reasonable time to wait for my final pay?

I started a new job recently and was let go after 3 weeks as the girl whose job I had filled didn't want to stay at her new job and returned to her previous job which meant my job was pretty much redundant seeing as I would be the spare wheel around the office.Since the office is a small one, with her return they decided not to keep me on, but of course couldn't fire me for that reason, so the manager gave some soppy excuse for letting me go, which was unnecessarily personal, but I'm just glad I'm out as the job sounded more exciting when it was offered but turned out to be so boring. On the plus side I have now decided to do what I have wanted to do for ages but just never had the courage to do: start my own business. I was fired on the 19th May and was expecting to be paid my final pay on the 25th which is when the company pays salaries but I haven't received anything yet. How long should I wait to query it? I need the money urgently to get going with my new business.

Probably unnecessarily long relationships theory?

That's normal to experience when you first start dating. Your first usually stays in your heart. But this trend will soon come to an end and your emotions will stabilize in the next couple of years (possibly months). At that time you will begin to like girls for them, not for the experience.

Cat loves my boyfriend even when he sprays it?

So, I have a 4 month old kitten which is really naughty. Jumps on the counter, eats our food just when we look away and incessantly meows unnecessarily. My boyfriend and I have researched on means to discipline our cats (we have another one as well) especially this kitten. We decided that the spray bottle was the most effective. Since I don't exactly have the heart to discipline my cats with a spray bottle, my boyfriend does it. (and sometimes gets too happy with it lol) Anyway, it really deters the kitten from doing activities we frown upon. However, after having been sprayed to the point that sometimes the kitten is more than damp, the kitten sits on my boyfriends lap or cuddles with him. (sometimes i feel she is more affectionate with him than with me =P) We don't want it to hate us, obviously, however, we just didn't expect this much affection, espceially after a spray. Anyone can explain why this happens? Does my kitten secretly like being sprayed? LOL. any comment is welcome.

How do I keep my kitten from peeing on my bed?

My boyfriend and I recently adopted a Siamese kitten from the pound. They told me that he was probably 12 weeks old when I got him fixed last week. He is very good at using the litter box, except when he pees. Before we got him fixed he peed everywhere. Now, he just pees on my bed at night. I was told that fixing him would stop this problem. Does it take some time? Should I just cage him at night for the rest of his life? If anyone else has had similar problems that they fixed I would love to hear tips.

Is Iams Healthy Naturals good?

I'm adopting a dog from the shelter. I asked the shelter what a good brand of dog food is. They said Iams is good. I was comparing labels and found that Iams Healthy Naturals is better. Is that true? Please note that I love my dog but I'm only 13 and my parents just got a divorce so I can't afford $50 a month on dog food. He is an active dog. We run/walk for 60 minutes a day and play fetch for at least 30 minutes. If you have any other suggestions please tell me but I need the dog food to be under $35 for at least a 30lb bag.

Appropriate letter to "one who got away"?

I know that you probably don’t want to talk to me, but here I am. I am going to try one last time. I understand that you’re in a relationship now, and I respect that. I am in no way trying to intervene. I just want you to know how I feel. First and foremost I want to apologize for any type of pain that I have caused you. It was unintentional. When you came to me, several months back and told me how you felt, I was taken back. I got scared. That fear arose because I actually shared those same feelings. I just did’t know how to let someone, especially someone as amazing as you, in. I did’t know how to receive those feelings, they were positive and real. Unfortunately, I did push you away, and I regret that decision with all of my heart. The decision that I made did not have anything to do with you, it was me. I was intimidated by your honesty, compassion, and kindness. You completely accepted me for who I am flaws and all. I don’t want anything but a friendship from you, that’s all that I can really ask for at this point. I just miss your company.. I hope that I hear back from you, Shane. If not then I will leave you alone, at least until you’re ready to continue our friendship.

How to handle friend who takes but never gives?

Omg, I'm going through the same thing! I do SO many nice things for my friend, but she never gives me anything in return! You and I are just nice people. We're generous and kind. I think you should just stop doing all those nice things for her and see what happens. Or you could just talk to her about it. She could just be being your friend for what you have or for what you do for her, and that isn't right. She should be friends with you because she likes who you are. I stopped doing those nice things for my friend, and she hasn't talked to me since. And this was only a few days ago! Now I know what kind of person she is... Anyway, best of luck to you! <3

I have to write a satirical letter?

It sounds already good to me! Every time I do a satirical project I end up overdoing it and spending so much time on it and I end up with a bad project. Do something really random and relaxed, if you have a good sense of humor it will be funny even if you only spend a day on it. Personal experience :)

I'm pretty sure a "straight" girl is flirting with me... or could I just be imagining it?

I highly doubt it xx alot of girls are touchy like that with close friends, you are probably just noticing it because you like her xx

Wisdom Tooth Removal - Nerve Damage Question?

Dont worry, the lowers are at a higher risk for nerve damage but that only happens if the root apex is in the mandibular canal. Oral maxio surgeons are very prepeared for these circumstances. Not being impacted means a fairly easy extraction. You are a caring wife.

I got (what I believe) unnecessarily written up, can you read and tell me what you think?

I got written up for my fourth tardy in advanced 2 dimensional art, I told the teacher I was late because I was filling out National Guard papers and talking to the recruiter, he told me I would just be a bullet catcher on the front lines and I was useless to them. Now, shouldn't he get in trouble for saying that to a student? I really don't think I should get detention for a hour or so after school for deciding to protect his stupidity and the rest of America, should I tell someone?

Anxiety/Depression Problem Please Help?

Well, in all honesty everyone's been in a position somewhat like that before, having hurt feelings over words that someone says. It's only natural that you and your personality would react that way, since most people have different reactions. But, if you'd like go be stronger emotionally, then you should do these two things. 1: Take it as life experience and try to embrace it, since everybody has flaws as well. Without flaws, life wouldn't be too much fun anyways. Trying to get over your flaws is the key, or (as I said before) embrace them and try to focus on your positive traits. For example, you could ask your friends what they think is good about you. 2: Take up a sport. Although it sounds like something for your body strength, it's also for the mind. To calm it, and wash away worries. Either that or you could take up a hobby. All in all though, don't let it get to you, because wether your a good person or not is the only thing that matters in my opinion. Keep Fighting! ^_^ -b

Why in dating columns 98% men advertise in India?

You read any newspaper or magazines published in India, and you will find there that almost all advertisements for dating or friendship are from the male side. No female is there. Are females not interested in friendship in India? Then why we male unnecessarily advertising one way? Shouldn't we stop here? And instead try for some other way for finding girlfriends?

Why do this girl always tell people she doesnt like me but now she is always staring at me?

Btw, it started after I sent her a text hoping she feels better after getting sick. My female friend told me sometimes it takes just a small act of kindness or caring to light a spark in a girl or to see someone in a different light.

May want to pass on our combined genes, don't want children/pregnancy, is this a thing that people do?

I've heard of it and im pretty sure its possible to have certain egg and sperm implanted in someone willing to do that.Probly has to be a certain match so the persons body doesnt reject it tho

Straight Guy Trying to Date a Lesbian?

no, don't listen to these lesbians. they are just hypocrites. when a lesbian ask if she can date a straight girl, the lesbians tell her to do it and see. they are telling you no because they are afraid and pissed off that there are not enough lesbians out there for them to find easily.

Did you ever play "school" when you were younger?

Yes me and my cousins use to play school all of the time and i would usually be the teacher and my cousins would be the students and i would make them do spelling tests and stuff. lol. we use to play everything

Is my mother being emotionally abusive?

Try stopping to prove her wrong---in Her eyes. Sounds like she has some issues---maybe offer to go to counseling with her. Talk to your school counselor---I bet she has some good tips for you too.

O gosh did i blow it?

I just think he might not want to text. Maybe the same thing with his phone though.. you didn't blow it. Just maybe be a little less persistent with txts.. maybe let him txt u?

Am I crazy or is my girlfriend crazy?

I think your best bet is to actually have proof on a piece of paper to show her that you give a ****..yes it seems a bit crazy...but print out your phone records or texts from while she was gone and show that you obviously cared and what not...and you need to explain to her gifts and stuff arnt the main thing in a relationship...she seems like a materialistic person and if she can't seem to understand you don't have all the money in the world...it will more than likely not work...it'd be different if you spent all your money on stupid **** and didn't bother to do anything with her but that doesn't seem like the case...if you two figure stuff out..maybe make her things once in awhile or pick her flowers...i dont know...its just a suggestion but shes definately the one going over board...not you

Should I do this..(please read)?

Just adopt the one you want, and don't feel guilty about the other one. You can't save them all. Adopting a dog that isn't a good match for you, your household, or your lifestyle is never a good idea for the adopter OR the adoptee. A dog that's too boisterous will drive you crazy, and your other dogs will feel this. If the shelter is trying to guilt-trip you into taking a dog you don't want and can't afford, remind them that they're lucky you're taking even one. Both dogs will adjust fine.

Does a person's faith in their fellow man diminish with age?

I think it goes both ways. A mature person would certainly have experienced betrayal, but we must have also been privileged to receive kindness and compassion from others.

Do Anyone Know The Name of This Website?

Hello, I am looking for a tv ad that I have seen in the last days. I live in Argentina but last week i was on vacations in Chicago, and I saw a TV ad about a website. I dont remember the channel or the name of the website, but I remember that it was an interview to the websites creator (a women) or someone important in the company. I believe that the ad main color was green and that the website was about hiring jobs and reviewing them, but im not so sure about that. So if you can tell me the name of it I would be very grateful. Thanks in advance for your kindness .

How can I be more sweet?

I am really kind and nice at heart, but it's hard to show it. I can be really shy and soft spoken, and it's hard to be nice and do nice things for strangers, or to talk to someone new. I want to be more liked in high school, and I want to let out my inner kindness and I want to be known for being sweet. Any help?

ANGRY HUSBAND W/ OLDER SON?

this is not right have you talked to your husband about this? did he tell you why he is this way with the oldest? give him a choice tell him if you can not treat both boys with the respect they deserve then i will have no choice but to leave you. dont call him out infront of the kids this will just cause them to think they can talk to their dad the same way causing more problems. when you see him glare at your son stand up asap and ask him to go to the kitchen with you ask him (away from the kids) why are you glaring at ___ like you hve been? give him a chance to answer then tell him he needs to stop if non of this work and you cannot get him to see what he is doing wrong and how it is not ok you have no choice but to leave. you might not have to leave for to long in order for it to snap him back were he wants to chancge. if you do not leave then you are harming your some and he will grow up with anger and resentment twords his dad and you for not stopping it. if you seperate go to counceling as a family if you still want it to work. if that doesnt work then i would not alow him to see either boy unless he can treat them both equaly with respect. good luck hope this helped

What do you think of my book so far?

Yea this would be an interesting story but it dosent show of a problem like all books have. But it seems interesting .

I'm confused and don't want to rush things or be too late!?

Ok, so we are both in grade 11, me 3 months older than her and she is my first girlfriend. She has only dated one other guy, but it wasn't serious and it was back in grade 9. So, we have been going out for a little over a week and been on two real dates. We have been really good friends before we were dating for almost 7 months so it wasn't really jumping into something super surprising or new, seeing as how we were already very comfortable with eachother before we started dating. Last week, us and our friends got together and drank. The next morning I check my phone and there is a text saying that she really wanted to kiss me, but wanted our first time to be sober for both of us. This wasn't a drunk text, but she also isn't a whore and I don't want to make a move and have it be too soon for her and complicate our relationship unnecessarily. So, how long should I wait. I don't want her to get impatient, but also don't want to jump the gun. If she wants to, will she maybe make the first move or is that up to me?

I want a baby, I need a sperm downer!?

I am 23 years old. I do NOT want a relationship. I have looked into adopting but it is so dang expensive! I want a sperm downer. Any ideas what to do?

What do i do about a girl i care about?

theres this girl i know (and yes i like her) shes 14 im 15 and iv been raised really well if u ask me but from what i know her lifes been **** in the last couple years and i know its taken a tole we first met at school when she moved from oregon for about half of my 8th grade and her 7th and i would like to say i knewher pretty well although i never had the balls to ask her out, anyway her life started taking a turn for the worst after shhe moved. and we lost contact untill i was in the process of moving across the country i found hher first on myspace then on facebook at first it wwas cool we talked like normal and it seemd like she liked me (haha like when i called her once because i dont like to talk with my parents around i had to wait till they were gone and she sayd i had a hot voice lol) anyway it stayd that way for about a month untill she stopped wanting to talk to me and i later found out that she might have cervical cancer and that the reason she stopped wanting to talk was because she didnt likethat i was trying to be a good friend and help her out when she was feeling bad all because she belives that she doesnt deserve kindness in part because she says she made a man commit suicide and since i could not prove or disprove this i wasnt sure what to say, i tried to help the sittuation by laying off for a while and letting her have her space but that seemed to only drive us farther apart. then later i found out that her ex boyfriend had cancer and only had a month to live (now i still a couple months later have no idea if this is true but she did say there was something wrong before that ) and i was the one that had to tell her because she didnnt want to talk to him and she sayd she felt terrible and she wanted to kill herself i basically told her thats not the answer and that was the last conversaton we had and idk what to do about the situation

Have an intelligent, non emotional opinion?

in a nutshell....adult criminal records are public and juvenile criminal (or 'adjudication') records are private. this results in denial of employment for adults with criminal backgrounds yet not juveniles who later become adults and apply for employment. That's not the issue tho. The issue is whether or not a constitutional claim could be successfully litigated challenging a state's decision to make juvenile criminal records exempt under the public records act when the same state allows the public access to juvenile sex offenders records(they have to report and notifications go out just like adults). If a state wants to keep juvenile criminal records sealed which basically means they can later apply for employment without having to worry about a background check exposing what they did as a juvenile for whatever reason they 'claim' then great, but how do they justify making an exception regarding juvenile sex offenders? If they are going to make exceptions then obviously the original reason behind sealing juvenile records is now shattered by their statute requiring juvenile sex offenders to report just like adult offenders. shouldn't the state now be required to make public all juvenile serious offenders' records? If not, wouldn't this constitute an equal protection violation because adult offender records are public and the state's position regarding the original intent behind sealing juvenile records via the enactment of a statute requiring juvenile serious sex offenders to report just like adult offenders won't hold up now? I think this would be a good case to entertain in federal court.......at the very least perhaps the judicial circuit I'm in may order some type of study to be conducted (I participated in a study created by a federal judicial circuit regarding the grievance policy of a state (all the states within that circuit) which they were going to attempt to adopt for that circuit in relation to the federal law requiring prisoners to first utilize the prison grievance procedure before filing civil actions) but your thoughts on this would be appreciated.

Feeling lonely plz help. Iam depressed in my life. Good morning.?

Life!! Which has the both things in it. One is happy and misery . But i have got only misery in ma life. Iam born in good family, they have given all compforts in my life. But i didn't get the love and kindness from them. Feels very bad. I have two sisters. One is doctor. But no use , she and my father always scoulds me alot. As iam very sensitive. There little words make me to feel loneliness in my life. I want to live my family in one year and iam student aged 18. So iam looking for job and iam studying diploma. I feel iam born in abnormal world with normal mind. Sometimes violations and wars, makes me too depress in my life. Ya i had one girl which become the burden instinct of happy in my life. I have left her because since iam minor aged. I have realized wat is my duty in my life. I dont know wat to do in my life. Ty for spending ur time to read this.....

What brand of dog food should I get?

I am adopting a four year old shepherd mix from the shelter. I have to pay for him and all of the things he needs. I know that the best dog foods are very expensive. I need a dog food brand of $40 or less per 30lb bag. He will be very active. An hour walk each day plus at least 10 minutes of fetch in the morning and evening. He will also do various activities such as swiming, biking, jogging and agility. I want to give him the best food for my money so that he knows I care. Any suggestions?

English help, 10 easy points.?

As of right now, I have a lot of debt. I think it is my fault; I shouldn't spend money unnecessarily as I currently do. The problem is that when I take a walk I usually end up taking a trip to the mall, and that is where I mainly spend my money. So far, I owe more than fifty-thousand dollars, but at least my income is more than enough to pay my debt in a long term. Another thing that increases the problem is that I spend lots of money when I go out with my girlfriend, because, although she works watering in a restaurant, she likes to spend money as though she was millionaire. She doesn't save money at all, just like me. I guess the next time I take her out, I will have to tell her that I'm in a lot of debt, and that it's time to save money.

Friend is acting strange, at least it seems that way to me?

Hi, I have had a friend from nursing school when I was working as a tutor I met her when tutoring her in her math. In the begging we got together almost every weekend, it was a lot of fun. Then very slowly, about a year later she doesn't call or message. She does have two kids and a finance, I am married but no kids. I graduated a few months before her so we had not done much together once I graduated and started a new job. I didn't text her much but neither did she. Sometimes I text but no reply just to say hi. Recently she just kept asking me for favors over and over. So it made me made. I never said anything though because I still thought that she was a real friend. Anyhow, I finally told her today that her only asking me for favors made me feel bad about things so she said that she's sorry she didn't realize she was doing that and best of luck to me. Whatever, I told her I didn't mean we couldn't friends anymore, just thought that she was taking advantage of my kindness. What to do just forget it? She didn't say anything after that. Friendships are very confusing to me.

Planning a 3 month Holiday?

I read an interesting article in wordpress.com entitled "Have gumption will travel" which cited an interesting and affordable way to get ones traveling done. You only need to to put the title in the search box to access the article!

My new puppy wont eat from her food bowl.?

I recently adopted a boxer mix puppy who is 9 months old. The foster said that she ate purina dog chow which i bought for her but whe refuses to eat out of her bowl or off the floor, she will only eat from my hand. What should i do?

Pregnant guinea pig - milk has just come through a little - how long till labour?

First time ive owned a pregnant guinea pig (adopted her pregnant) and her belly is huge and the babies move heaps! today her nipples looked red and when you touched them a bit of milk came out. has anyone experienced this? Do you know how long till she will go into labour?

How can I be unadopted in NYS?

I was adopted by my shitty step father when I was 6. I'm now 19 and the mental and emotional abuse continues. I'm inquiring about unadopting myself from him. I am a NYS resident and want to know if this is possible and how to go about this process

What are some good songs about beimg let down by friends?

I feel like my friends should have defended me and stood up for me and they didnt. O feel like they take advantage of my kindness and use me when they need me. Just looking for a good dog about it. Thanks

Title/ Author of this book....?

It's a kids/ teen novel about an orphan girl (i think her name is maude) who is adopted by these three women who are con artists pretending to be mediums or something. It's set in a beach town in the Edwardian era and there's some side plot about a little girl who drowned (i think she was the con artists' client's daughter). Anybody know it?

I want her to be my wife, but is it too late?

My wife and i are alot different. Shes in her early twentys and im in my late twentys. I ride a motorcycle shes into trucks. Shes religous im not. Shes had both of her parents i was placed in foster care. I surf while she plays soccer. We have very few things in common. Shes forgiven me for alot of things, cheating and lying, ive done things to her that were very hurtful. I left her during her pregnancy, was with someone else. She forgave me, we got married. And i can truthfully say i am in love with my wife, shes been the one woman that has shown me kindness(im an asshole in general). Now that im determined to change, shes already moving on, i feel like nothing i do now can prove to her how much i do love her. She doesnt believe me, its my own fault. She asked me for a divorce, and i feel like ****. Should i just give up and move on? Thanks

For the love of God please answer this!?

Ok, so we are both in grade 11 and she is my first girlfriend. She has only dated one other guy, but it wasn't serious and it was back in grade 9. So, we have been going out for a little over a week and been on two real dates. We have been really good friends before we were dating for almost 7 months so it wasn't really jumping into something super surprising or new, seeing as how we were already very comfortable with eachother before we started dating. Last week, us and our friends got together and drank. The next morning I check my phone and there is a text saying that she really wanted to kiss me, but wanted our first time to be sober for both of us. This wasn't a drunk text, but she also isn't a whore and I don't want to make a move and have it be too soon for and complicate our relationship unnecessarily. So, how long should I wait. I don't want her to get impatient, but also don't want to jump the gun. If she wants to, will she maybe make the first move or is that up to me?

Concerned about possible hoarding?

Ok, 8 years ago i rescued my dog from a local no kill rescue. She is very sweet and i also rescued another little girl who decided to escape and this rescue group found her so i had to go to the place where this woman keep all the dogs. My Little puppy at the time when i got there was stuck in a tiny chicken wire fence with like 7 other dogs and she was matted in poop and the lady told me im lucky shes not keeping my dog, well all the dogs are in nasty poop filled chicken wire "kennels" and they are chained up in these "kennels" and before i saw the deplorable conditions they were in i recommended her to people but she has gotten to the point where she wont let anyone adopt these dogs, I know she has the right to turn people down but its ridiculous and i don know what to do, these animals are suffering, and the local human society wont do anything. Any advice?

What should I do? (long story)?

You know what? People do things like that. But don't avoid it! If you probably wont se him again, it wont hurt to try, right? Tell him what really happened two years back! Show that backstabber that your through with the games. Be the bigger person! Be confident and don't let anything stand in your way.

Whats a good way to show love to people like Jesus did, so that people can be "won over"?

Is it true that if you "take the high road" and dont retaliate, and just show love to people who treat you poorly, that they will eventually be won over by your kindness?

Will my teacher like this poem?

That was an extremely inspirational poem! What is so great about it, is that they rhymes aren't forced. They are absolutely perfect. It sounds like you really do appreciate everything she has done for you. She is going to feel so amazing after reading it. I know I did! Great poem, great meaning, GREAT JOB!!! :D :D :D

Why is Honduras one of those annoying teams?

hahaha esos putos couldn't even beat A 9 MAN GUATEMALA...WHILE MEXICO DEFEATED AN 11 MAN GUATEMALA. They never won a Copa Oro and will never win one if all they care about is playing Mexico...MEXICO LE DEBIA VALER MADRE lo que digan esos creidos egoistas.

I don't *WANT* to adopt my step-kid..can I say this without seeming to reject him?

Why does she want you to adopt the step child? So she can get child support out of you when you two split up?

Boyfriend on Xbox...?

Just be honest and upfront with him, tell him that you would like it if he did more things with you. He can still have time for his Xbox and you at the same time.

Is Microsoft Security Essentials any good?

Currently I have Avast! Free but would the free software mentioned above be useful or would it just unnecessarily add virus protection where the pc is already protected?

Should i end up this Marriage and ask for a divorce?

A year ago My husband had taken up a job away from our home country. We have been married since 17 years. We have a 15 yrs old daughter and 12 yrs old son. My marriage was never very smooth . He always had pressures from his family and was never able to mantain a balance between his duties towards me and and family(Parents and brother). Even when sometimes we were away from the family he never used to give any importance to me . Whenever I needed his support or his love he was never there for me. I have had 7 missed abortions other than my two kids. I always use to be alone at the doctor for my DNC's as he never had time to spare.He forcefully had sex with me on our first nigth and after that many consecutive nights. When I accepted and tried to adopt his way of life suddenly he started avoiding me to the extent that he would not have a physical contact with me for months and I used to cry. Whenever it was time for him to come home i used to dress up for him and he used to push me away and avoid me.used to scold me and be harsh to me even when I tried to do my best to ignore all the abusive language and unfair ways in which his parents used to treat me. A number of times he cheated on me,and said I had no right to stop him from doing so. He has had many friendships etc.When we were newly married he used to seduce me then practice self control and avoided having sex for months. He always had mood swings and Ihad to put up with themall through my life. His mother used to put up allegations on me and used to tell lies to create misunderstandings between both of us. She always insulted me and rediculed me publically and my husband would never stop her or stand by me. Since past 7 years we shifted to another city.He bought a house on loan. The loan was at a high installment. He says that the has left me and kids alone because in this way he shall be able to pay back the loan in one year.Since past three years his brother is out of job and he tries to partly support his brother and parents as well. I am still madly in love with him and can't event think of being without him atall .He now comes to see me and the kid once a month or once in two months. Sometimes he shows kindness love and affection and at other times totally avoids us since it seems he feels burdened since now he is used to living alone without any liabilities and restrictions. He does not like any suggestions from me. He said we would b together in one years time but i cant see that we would ever be together as his salary is not enough to support us in a foreign country he is not ready to come back. Since past one year the loan has not been reduced atall. There is no saving. I have gone mad living alone and taking care of all financial responsibilities. I have also started working in a bank 9:00 to 5:00 job .The money that he sends to us is hardly enough to mee our basic needs . All my salary is also spent to make both ends meet. Kids also miss him a lot. Whenever I see him now, I feel that we all are a burden on him and he sometimes pushes me away and still treats me like a rolling stone. Eventhough I love him too much but i dont have a feeling of being loved the way i need. I now have a death wish. I am mostly praying for my natural death , Eventhough my brother and parents live in the same city ,they do not lend much support. Mostly i am doing all the jobs alone. I wish to run away into the jungles and do not wish to see any of my family or husband. I wish to go for a divorce.

What do you think of my story (sorry about grammar mistakes, please tell me what you think of it and give tips?

I think your story is too long and hard to read. Next time keep your story shorter and easy to read.

What do catholics beleive in adoption?

do catholics learn this from there church where if they find situations that is harmful to children are they told to adopt those situations

Want to play the baby name game :) ?

Paul luke watson. annabel lynn, abigail laine, aubrey lyree, alexander luke, abraham lenard, and andrew lee. john deer and camo part green part pink. bailey mae, bonnie michelle, and brianna marie. disney world. chloe nicole. cars of choice. lost virginity. husky. dawn obella and evalan penny. no. getting married. fantasia quinn and givani rae- 2 day old twins. yes katie valletta.

Boyfriend barely helps with our 6 month old baby? ?

No marriage. This guy will be gone in a month. 19 years old, no diploma, no skills, and an illegitimate baby. Sad story but you have no one else to blame but yourself.

How much would you pay your friend if they let you stay in their house?

She and hubby are both gone for weeks, so we are staying in their house while we wait for ours to become available (we're military, just moved) and we can get the mail, move her car, ect. Of course their super nice and expect nothing but I want to give them some money for their kindness. In this base housing you don't have regular utility bill. We're staying here for 2 weeks. What would you personally do?

Everyone knows me as the go to person, reliable, dependable, ask her and she will help?

The guy at work, well, I don't know what that has to do with you, sounds like the post office to me. Just stop doing the stuff and people will stop asking you.

Would people still cheat if they received love and affection in current relationship?

Most of the time it's because they get bored and want something more exciting or a whole different person. I've heard the expression 'You get tired of the same thing!'

San jose place to BUY dogs?

Please help me im tying to buy a dog but here in san jose california all they have is to adopt do you know a place where you can buy a dog or puppy not a website like craigslist please help me

What do you think of the Pit Bull breed and or Terrier Bull?

Its how they are bred and raised. Bad genetics can cause bad temperament also poor training.. So, no its not the breed.

Scientologist husband and Satanist wife?

I'm a Scientologist and my wife is a Satanist. Now, we've been married since the '80s and have been fairly happy, but lately her "I'm my own god" attitude has been rubbing me the wrong way. Is Xenu not good enough for her? I find Xenu to be quite fair and merciful, but she seems to think she's a higher being. Did she bring me to earth billions of years ago out of the kindness of her own heart? I think not. Thoughts? Is she a lost cause?

Adopting into a family?

There's a family that ive known for awhile now, they are seriously considering adopting me. The problem is that i still have a father (my mother died awhile ago). My father is 59. im his 5th child and he barely cares for me. Whenever he cooks meals, does the laundry, goes to town, etc... im never thought about. Im 16 so can that family adopt me?

Allergic to kittens of a certain age?

Do cats develop more dander and FEL D1 after a certain age? I just adopted kittens and didn't seem to be allergic to them when I first got them. A few weeks later, when they reached about 3 months of age, I started to sneeze around them a bit. Coincidence? Or do they start producing more allergens after a certain age?

When "helping people" requires supplanting their wishes with your own, is it really helping?

In both cases, you are substituting God's wishes for the other person's wishes. Yes, you are really helping. It is not selfish to bring a person closer to God or to demonstrate God's love for them in ways that they do not think they want. If you do it the way Jesus did, there are no expectations. The gift need not be reciprocated, and the suicide need not be canceled. You are not responsible for the final outcome. That decision lies solely in their own hands. The outcome is between the individual and God.

Would you adopt an ugly child?

You adopt a child because he or she needs a loving home and you can offer that. Looks should never come into it.

I think my husband is cheating on me, can anyone help?

it's only a hunch, i feel he is not telling the truth to me. Pays special attention to hide his mobile or the mobile is on silent. Also found some weird love texts and when i asked said it's just a friend. If so what's with the late nigh texts. Am i freaking out unnecessarily?? please assist

My friend shows up in photos always with a yellow right eye --- dangerous?

this isnt dangerous, it just means that thier retina is reflecting the light produced from the camera opposed to the red colour that thier retina ommits

Does anyone know where I could get a good deal on a wire dog crate? (online or in the Pittsburgh area)?

I just adopted a dog, and she is still in the dog crate training stage. She is too tall for the one I bought but she needs a taller one and they are a little pricey. I wanted to know if there was anywhere I could get a deal on a crate to save a little money. Thanks

Where can I adopt a baby guinea pig?

I am looking to adopt two female guinea pigs. The problem is, all the pet stores that I have looked at only have adults, and I want babies. I live in Highland Park, IL, and it would be nice if the pet store was less than 10 miles away. Please give me the name and address of the place or a link to their website.

My sons mom married a man that adopted him now devorced , have shared custody my son hates him what can we do?

i'm gay gave up right 10 years ago his mom and i are still friends and he knows i'm his bio. dad and we get along great

I need 250 everyday k words.?

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What do you think of my story...thanks.?

Once upon a time in a small tightly packed village, there lived a fairly young brown haired lemur. He had been cut out of his pack as his looks were too abnormal for his tribe to handle. This Lemur was called Harry and had a long thick beetle like nose with furry eyes with a black like fur bib over his tummy. So far you may be thinking "he seems like a pretty normal lemur to me" however it wasn't this that made his stand out. It was his personality. Looks can mean a simple term as appearance but also can mean his "looks" to other leamers; eg not taking to him. Harry lived in his lemur made cabin with dark wooden chairs and his best possession were his musical instruments. He would sit there for hours everyday playing his piano or belting out lemur 80's hits while eating cucumber at the same time. As much as he praised and treasured there instruments, he knew there was something miss in his long pointless life. Crystal clear tears ran down his smooth fur, making a sweet squeaky sound of upset. Insects, Hedgehogs and even wild cats were aware of this sound but not any lemers which he deep down knew he missed. There was one he particularly missed; her name was Hoops, spaghetti hoops, She had affectionate curls dangling from her head with naturally shinny deep blue eyes, but it wasnt her "looks" which made Harry weep deeper onto his rug, it was her kindness, friendliness her and he acceptance and even extra emotion for Harry. They had met at their local animal information group. Harry walked in not thinking of anything but his next musical project to work on. He walked past groups of teen lemurs demonstrating steetdancing and applying lipstick at top speed. He glared at them and felt a little jealous as he had always fancied putting lipstick on...Maybe if I have dazzling lips they will be my "frr frriied friend" he said. 'Hey" shouted the team lemar member of the group. "We are starting any minute now! Grab you furry bumed feline friends and hop aboard in the hall!" This was Miss Apple. She was very over excited about everything and a bit annoying. Suddenly breaking the silence was a loud crows with smelly perfumes on-the teen group came in. Follwed by the eldeey lemeras greeting all th eyoungoes. Harry snorted trying to be cool. Nearly every seat was filled now, only two remained. Harry looked around about to burst into tears but then jumped and fell on the ground as he has just lad eyes on Hoops! He was nervous but attracted and decided to take the risk...He went over and said Hi, Hoops went "Helle..I am new here...You look now too...Harry liked what he said...The other lemars sneered in a cool way. Hoops didnt say anything else..just stated into Harry'y eyes..Harry done the same to Hoops and not long after he invited her to his lonly life house. They spoke about roadworks and how they didnt like Miss Apple. Harry performed his newly made love song for her and she hugged him in a warm and gentle way. One day he suggested they went into the forest to get some fruit. Hoops said yes.."sounds fun". Harry jumped up and said "Yippie!" then looked at her lemer tail and smiled. " See you tomorrow" Harry saidto Hoops. Hoops looked at her curls with her small mirror and said "oh er bye". The next day they went into the forest, with Harry playing his trumped and Hoops talking about her fave clothes, shops and nuggets. Harry loved it. They found a spot to have lunch after picking some fruit. Harry had done enough waiting..he wanted to make some lemar babies who would love to listen to his music...and fast! Um "Hoops" he said...cough..You have curls and our one would be you know...curly? Hoops stared.."wait..are you asking me to curl your hair" harry said no! I mean...you know make babies..Hoops said..what! Oh well...Um Harry um...you know what I think I have to go..my um...sister wants me round..bye". she hoped off into the trees and Harry's heart fell apart..he rushed over and tried to find Hoops..he caught a lasp glimpse of her applying her lemar shine blusher on...Hoops! he called, in a stong hopefully voice but she just hoped faster. This was 3 years ago now and Harry had never attempted to try love or any kind to relationship again..his tears had dried now..He was bored..he was very bored..Could he move house? Could he go out..He got his kettle and made a cup of tea. and put some lemar poison in it.. He sighed in a grumpy him like way.Harry had been alone for so long, he forgot that looks didnt mean a great lemur. He knew never to trust anyone who "looked" nice again.

Should i just take the abused dog or get the police involved?

ok there is this mutt (not sure what it is) that has found itsway to my parents house. There is a lot strays and abused animals around our house so my mom keeps dog food and cat food out at all times. Her owner knows shes there but doesnt come and get her. Shes been at my moms for about 2 months now. She goes home one day a week, but doesnt stay long. Shes had several litters, you can see her bones even though she eats. And needs alittle medical care. I think with lots of love she will be the perfect addition to our family. She is the happiest most loveable dog ive ever met. Im thinking i should just take her. She lives with my parents anyway. But i would also be stealing a mans dog and i dont want that to be heald against me on judgement day. The dog looks pretty rough and if i call the police and get the shelter involved she might be put down with out ever being given a chance. Or they would take her and i would have to adopt her Costing more money, and i live 100 miles a way. And i dont want to get involved in any animal abuse cases. He has lots of other dogs that he takes really good care of. He just doesnt take care of her. the mans a druggie and drinks alot so im not sure if its safe to go to his house and ask to take his dog. Ill probably call the police but was wondering what would you do?

Which of these dog foods is best: Purina, Iams, Science Diet, or Eagle Pack?

I'm adopting a dog. I'm 13 and have to pay for everything myself. Therefore I cannot afford expensive dog food. But I still want to get the best I can for my dog. So which of these is best? Or if you have other suggestions, my budget is $40 or under for a 30lb bag.

The Woman Who Kept Her Dead Mum In The House For 6mths.......?

I could not agree with you more, and in fact people jump to judgement based on how they would react to a situation themselves, and the facts be damned.

Help my fiancee's son wants to get pregnant?

my fiancee's son, Roman, is 13. hes been saying forever that hes not gay but just recently he started talking about partial sex change/reassignment surgery? he says he is not gay but he really wants to get pregnant... i think this is because hes adopted at the age of 9 and his mom cant get pregnant, so he feels bad... he even asked me if i knew any guys who he could ****!? i actually had a nightmare about it lol, hes only 13, it would be so gross! how do we talk him out of this? his mom alreaddy tried but he thinks shes being judgmental. i think if hes gay that's perfectly ok and he should just tell us rather than asking to get knocked up. has anyone seen this behavior in a straight male kid before???

I get really hungry all the time, how do I get rid of the hunger?

Recently I've been getting really hungry for no reason. I don't want to eat unnecessarily because I has dinner two hours ago, and I've tried drinking water but nothing has helped. What should I do?

I'm thinking about getting the EVO 3D, is there an option to turn off the 3D effects?

I honestly couldn't care less for the 3D part, I just want a faster version of the EVO 4g, and here it is! So, as I was asking, is there an option to just use the phone without any '3D' interference? I feel like it would just use up battery life unnecessarily, as I have no interest in it whatsoever.

Is my owner killing me with kindness?

My owner (Commander James Hewitt) only walks me for 15 minutes a day and added to that brings me a creamcake every day when he geats home from work. I don't like exercise so he is only being nice but is he 'killing me with kindness'?

What's a nerdy way to say you wet your pants?

i want a very technical and unnecessarily nerdy way to say it, instead of just "i peed my pants"

DS: Incompetence or just plain criminal?

Incompetence is endemic these days. It isn't helped by a 'jobsworth' attitude to insurance and health and safety issues by managers. What I find obscene is that $500,000 went to lawyers on a review. Might that money not have kept the shelter going and paid for clearing up the disease(s)?

1988 Honda Accord Value?? Help!?

I've been driving my grandpa's 1988 Honda Accord for the last several years and now I'm getting ready to buy it from him. He said to pay him whatever I feel like. I want to be fair and not take advantage of his kindness but I don't want to overpay either! The car runs fine (had to take it in a few times last year) and has a fairly big dent in the front bumper from an old accident, but other than that it's a great car. Advice???

My iPhone is being a total moron?!?

Everytime I record a video, it's turns out ridiculously and unnecessarily quiet! You can't hear a thing unless I record with the microphone literally on my mouth. How the heck do I fix it??

My grandpa has given up. I'm just in shock, I'm 1000 miles away, what can I possibly say to him?

I'm sorry to hear about this. To me it sounds like he is going through depression. Maybe you could advise him to talk to someone about it and perhaps see a therapist. also there are other things in life to enjoy besides seeing things. You could tell him to "enjoy the little things like grandma's warm embracing hugs, the sound of the birds chirping in the morning, the smell of a tasty meal, the melody of a song" I also think it would be a good idea to mail him some CD's that he could listen to. Perhaps his favorite artist or band :) I think he would like that. Good luck!

If sale of human beings is a crime then why the sale of animals is legal?

man eating man is a crime but he can eat other living beings.why man has no kindness for other living beings?why is man so selfish.according to me birth of humans was the worst thing that happened to earth.

I gave a homeless person a George Foreman electric grill out of the kindness of my heart..?

And he starts screaming at me about how I'm a jackass and don't care about his feelings and as I'm running afraid he has a shiv and is going to cut me the wily bastard throws my grill at me fracturing my left radial bone. WTF? I try to help a homeless person by giving him a cooking utensil and he throws it at me??

I just do not get along with girls at work. How can I deal with it?

The best thing to do is just ignore them, and focus on your work. You don't have to talk with anyone you feel uncomfortable around, besides it's your job, it's not a place to be socializing with co-workers 24/7

I'm adopting an outdoor cat how do I keep it safe?

Ok So I"m adopting a cat and he lives outside at a local coffee shop so when I take him back to my house how do I keep him safe outside and still protect my furniture inside?

What to do w/Angry HUSBAND & SON!?!?

yes - it is abuse - emotional abuse - not just for your oldest son, but to all of you in the house. Just think what goes on when your not in the room. my husband was raised this way by a stepfather. My hubby is now 43 & has no children, but he treats me that way when problems arise. This is his only way of dealing. please - for your childs sake - get them outta there if he wont go to anger mgmt. and knowing these people the way i do, ordinarily its never their fault - they never apologize - and are controlling as hell. trust me, you dont want your boys to grow up to be that way. save them while you can.

My heart hurts and I don't know why please help :(?

See you dont have to be sorry for the things which you have not done , stop cursing your self get to the positive side of life, love your self and find reasons to make your day worth living, its just that you are alone get involved with your friends and family.

How do I deal with this difficult situation?

It is very clear what you need to do. It sounds like your brother in law megs needs to spend some more time with his son and his tantrums. You are not wrong at all for disciplining him. "The rod and reproof are what give wisdom; but a boy let on the loose is causing his mother shame." (Proverbs 29:15) I know that you are trying to help because your nephew is your family, but he is old enough to know that he needs to listen to you. If his father is trying to undermine that, then you need to back of f a bit. I'm not saying to write him off completely. You can still invite them both to family functions, but that's it until they both learn how to treat you, and if his father asks why, don't be afraid to tell him the truth.

I feel like it is to difficult to go on without someone. But I am not ready for someone until I go on. Advice?

Turn it to the Lord;it5's His Department. Welcome to the world whose people o0nly look out for themselves.The world is full of them.Pray for God to put REAL Christians into your path.Believe it or not,God yet has some real Christians out there, it' just that the phonies make up all the attention & noise.Keep your good attitude & the day will come when God will answer.Your in training pal, He has a future reason for it all.Just "hang in there"& keep the faith.

Did your cat behave like this and did he/she grow out of it?

Yeah, they get more independent as they get a little older. My cat was kinda like that when he was younger but now he likes his space :)

"Paper Pregnant"? How does adopting a child make you pregnant in any way?

Not sure how that works---Bur I can tell you for a Fact I've known many couples going into foster care to foster and /or adopt coming up pregnant in months or a yr or two later. This has happened time After time after time to people I know. I think they take the pressure from one place and put their interests somewhere else---into fostering. It does work that way many times!!!!!!!

Testosterone is what makes a man?

when it comes to idiots, there is no arguing. you can not out smart them because they don't know what your talking about and if you try on their level they just come back with more cause they have been idiots for so long. my advice, walk away or have some big friends that look threatening to make em walk away.

Does she like me or was she just leading me on?

So i was talking (IM) to this girl ..and i ask her "what you up too" she says "thinking" then i say "thinking of what" she says " of you :)" i ask ";) is that right?haha are you flirting with me" cause she never talked like that to me.. she says "maybe ,are you flirting with me" i say "yeah,maybe,a bit..:)" so then i ask her if she has a crush on me cause she's be given me signals like laughing at my bad jokes ,unnecessarily touching me during conversation and at this deep look into my eyes ,haha..she says "no, why does it seen like i do" i'm like " well yeah i don't flirt with random people i don't care about" she says "oh my bad didn't notice i was.but if i did what would you say" and i'm confused at this point cause i don't see the point in answering the question but i say "i'd say i like you too but we'd need to spend more time together cause we hardly know you" ..and that was the end of the IM convo cause she signed off after that..without warning or reply

How to make baby parrotlet not aggressive with conure?

I am thinking of adopting a baby parrotlet, or maybe the parents. But the baby has a chance of getting along with my conure. I would never put the adults with my conure though. So what would I do to introduce them safely? I don't care if they're best friends, but I want the cages next to each other so the parrotlet can't be so aggressive he'll fly to the conure cage to attack her. The baby's wings will be clipped once he learns to fly. He's not weaned yet.

DNA testing to solve family's large history gaps?

You are the one who has to make the decision whether to do testing now or wait. I don't see why it wouldn't be worth doing now. It'd settle your mind. I found a website that you might enjoy reading. It should help you make your decisions. Good luck!

Why did my parents lie to me about Santa Claus?

My parents never did!!! They wondered the same thing you are! I think they just want there children to be good...But they dont know how much of a fool they're child will feel like, or how much theyre child will not trust them...

I want to adopt internationally?

There are very few healthy infants & toddlers available for adoption in Eastern Europe. Most of them have special needs, fetal alcohol syndrome is very common, & many of them have attachment problems. The system is full of corruption & agencies are often dishonest with hopeful adoptive parents about the extent of the kids' issues. Eastern Europe was popular in the 90s because parents wanted to adopt white children. If you want a healthy infant or toddler I strongly urge you to consider domestic adoption instead.

Nervous for driving test?

I'm taking my driving test on tuesday and i've been unnecessarily nervous since i scheduled it. are there any tips for my nervousness or the driving test in general?

Brittany, Rotti, or Great Dane?

Great Danes are amazing! They don't have long lives, but are wonderful. They love to lounge on the couch, easy to groom. Perfect dog in my opinion.

Are the labor pains worth it if you really really want a child?

I'm just curious. I would like to have 1 child when I'm married but being a person who's never experienced real pain, is it really worth it? Should I adopt?

Was Ricky Martin born as a black?

Well, I've been investigating this case for a long time now and it's still bothering me. I know that Ricky's real parents are black and that he's adopted. So, he should be black, right? How is his skin white then?

Does anyone hear her? (Long)?

sometimes we are put into situations we dont understand. we all have a purpose. sometimes we go through something painful so it will make us stronger. you will make it through this. just keep pushing, dont give up :)

If someone(A)file police case repeatedly to disturb/to give tension to somebody(B) what B can do legally stop?

in a society A & B are staying in ground floor(Mr.A) & Ist floor. B is a lady and she leaves for service 9.30 am to 6.30. Mr. A & Family creating problem while parking Mrs.B's scooty opposite to his room crossing the road. The parking place is of Hsg.Board and corporation(not of Mr.A). But the A & family are making damage to Mrs.B's scooty and try to quarrel every now and then and he threaten to file police case unnecessarily. Mrs. B is busy mother of 2 kids and from respected family. so she don't want to interfere policy case and wastage of time. But Mr.A is taking advantage of this and threaten to file police case to disturb /give tens to Mrs.B's routine work and kids education and so..though Mr.A is the guilty. Mr.A is claiming the place we used to park the vehicle , was using Mr.A and still he wish so though he knows it is not his place. So he(A) try to make quarrel with B. Now it is too much pl. suggest what Mrs.B can do to stop Mr.A's Dadagiri legally. Mrs.B wants know is there any legal remedy to stop Mr.A's repeated police case which disturb Mrs.B's routine life. Pl. help with clause/under which section.

What's the minimum amount of food to survive?

What is the least amount of calories per day my friend could survive on for the rest of her life? She is an average 125 lbs at the moment. Let's assume she would do everything possible to conserve energy so as not to burn calories unnecessarily.

Cats don't get along after 2 months?

I have a 2 year old torttie I adopted a year ago and 2 months ago added a 2 year old bengal cat. They are tolerating eachother but still get into big fights once in awhile. The torttie gets very jealous when I give bengal attention. Will the fights ever stop? I really want them to get along. Any advice?

If your ex speak kind words about you?

Yes, I would be touches by my ex's kind comments. I'd also try to find the right time and place to say thanks.

Nvidia GeForce 8600M GT Driver on Dell 1720?

Windows automatic update doesn't always properly install or may interfere with currently installed software. So I suggest you to remove the former Nvidia driver for Windows 7completely, download another driver for XP, and install it manually. The problem should be solved.

Thinking of adoption?

My friend and her husband are looking to adopt. Friend will be a SAHM and her husband is in the Military. Your baby will have everything he/she needs and even wants. Race and special needs arent an issue. And the adoption openess is up to you (within reason)

Is This the Future of Procreation?

Anything is possible I guess. I don't agree with it, I believe when we are prime to have children, is likely when we should be having them.

Should I call DCFS? Need advice.?

I have found out that my cousin is a drug dealer and we have known that when she was trying to get pregnany about 8 years ago that she was one of those "wake and bake" people. and know i have heard that she is a drug dealer. and has sold as recently as two weeks ago. Now she has and 8 yrs old daughter who is the sweetest thing you could ever ask for but she is being raised in a home with this and being introducted to man after man of mommy's "friends" AKA F*** Buddies. And not only that but she is constantly pawning of her daughter on everyone else because she wants to go out and party. it has gotten to the point where no one will watch her little girl because EVERYTHING that comes out of her mouth is most likely (99.9%) a lie. Not only that but last month she didnt have any money to keep her electricity, water or gas on! She makes almost 150 from her job every two weeks, get 500 from unemployment every two weeks and has a **** buddy out of state who sends her money all the time! How can she not pay her ******* bills!!! i am sorry for my language but this makes me so mad i could spit nails. now i own a resturaunt and she works there and this is all i hear about and im letting her keep the job becuase she is family and her daughter needs a good home. and she isnt getting it. now i know for a fact that her brother has offered to adopt her daughter and they wouldnt keep them apart or anything but atleast there she would get a stable home. should i call DCFS or just write a letter to her brother informing him of the situation. Either way it will be annonymous. I just neeed help. I cant stand her or this situation she is puttting her daughter in.

Did Mayweather really pay for Chicanito Hernandez funeral?

Well to be fair to Mayweather, he has done some good deeds before. I think he is smart enough not to over-sell it. I remember he was handing out some food or clothes to the homeless but aside from a news article mentioning such, I never heard him brag about it. I don't know if it was for tax deductions or improved press, or just being a good neighbor.

Westboro Baptist Church, terrorism, and Catholicism?

The Westboro Baptist Church is made up of lawyers, real life trolls who try to get kicked out of places. Then they sue for having their rights violated.

My cat growls at my friend's cats who are visiting but she doesn't get mad when she smells their scent?

I am trying to introduce my cat to her siblings who she hasn't seen a in a while. My friend adopted them and they are staying with me for a few days. The first day my cat growled at everything, even their scent but now she's ok with the scent but if she sees them she gets mad. What does this mean?

Is it possible to have a black golden retriever ?

My family adopted a dog that was portrayed to be a black "Newfoundland". When we first got her, I thought she was a golden retriever, but black of course. The breeder was unknown since we got her from a pet store. She is very happy and healthy, but I was just wondering if it is possible to have a black golden retriever. If you compared a golden to my dog, you would find no differences other than that my dog is black.

Sudden throbbing, burning sensation in both sides of the lower back? Also, sharp pain under the right ribcage?

So i'm lying in bed and all of a sudden it feels like somethings gonna explode in there, i was left breathless for a few moments although its now worn off slightly, I searched google but can find anything, its late at night here so medical advice via telephone is unavailable and I don't want to unnecessarily call for an ambulance. I have also had a sharp pain under my right rib cage that started a few hours ago, don't know if these are related but if somebody could suggest anything that it could be and what I can do to ease the pain until morning?

How do I get the electric company to stop cutting down my trees!?!?

write a strongly worded message to the power company and tell them to tell their workers to cut off the branches or you'll sue them for damage to property

A scary movie that will actually "Scare" Me?

"Red Dragon" a Hannibal Lecter movie, but it has less gore that the other Lecter movies I've seen, and there are.....no naked women I think. If you don't want to go older than 1999 you're really limiting yourself cause there are classics like "Psycho"

Would I have a good chance in Small Claims Court?

Since the additional washer/dryer fee was not spelled out in the lease, i doubt that a judge would give her a monetary judgement. If she takes you to small claims(very doubtful) you need to show up so she doesn't get a default judgement. Good Luck

Why do christians think that homosexuality is being forced on society?

why do Christians have to be so unnecessarily authoritarian. no one should be able to tell others who they can and can't be with. and then they try to pull this whole "the bible is unquestionable" thing. excuse me? i don't know where christians think they live, but were allowed to question anything in a democracy.

What is wrong with me? help please?

Okay so I unnecessarily freak out a ton. I've looked up panic attacks which I thought it was, but that says that I would be freaking out about something that I'm practically deathly afraid of. I'm not really panicking about anything that I'm scared of, more like that I have a lot of homework and I haven't started or something a long that line. I get really upset; I cry and my heart starts speeding up and I can't think and I usually start hyper ventilating. Then I get extremely mad at myself for getting upset about something stupid, and then that gets me upset again. Then I'm up all night stressing. And i cant talk to my mom...i just cant..Help me?? Also i haven't ever been tested/ been diagnosed with anxiety or anything else. and i also think i might have that problem were you always self diagnose yourself with stuff ( which is ironic because im self diagnosing my self with that, but still). I think this because when i look on line to try to find out whats wrong with me and it says theres nothing wrong , this just stresses me out. because im so sure theres something wrong with me..i just dont know what!!! help pleasee!

I recently adopted an unsteady three week old hamster...?

She is wayyyy too young!!!!! Who sold you a baby hamster at that age!? Im sorry i dont know how to help but good luck!

Should i just take the abused dog or get the police involved?

ok there is this mutt (not sure what it is) that has found itsway to my parents house. There is a lot strays and abused animals around our house so my mom keeps dog food and cat food out at all times. Her owner knows shes there but doesnt come and get her. Shes been at my moms for about 2 months now. She goes home one day a week, but doesnt stay long. Shes had several litters, you can see her bones even though she eats. And needs alittle medical care. I think with lots of love she will be the perfect addition to our family. She is the happiest most loveable dog ive ever met. Im thinking i should just take her. She lives with my parents anyway. But i would also be stealing a mans dog and i dont want that to be heald against me on judgement day. The dog looks pretty rough and if i call the police and get the shelter involved she might be put down with out ever being given a chance. Or they would take her and i would have to adopt her Costing more money, and i live 100 miles a way. And i dont want to get involved in any animal abuse cases. He has lots of other dogs that he takes really good care of. He just doesnt take care of her. the mans a druggie and drinks alot so im not sure if its safe to go to his house and ask to take his dog. Ill probably call the police but was wondering what would you do?

I'm getting fat but I like it?

I've always been slim but it's fair to say over the last few months I've gotten a bit big. Over winter I adopted some unhealthy eating habits that have carried on throughout the year adding about 30lbs to my weight making me around 185lbs. The only negative is my rapidly expanding waistline and the fact I spend a lot of my allowance on snacks and food. I never used to care for food much but now it all seems so tasty! I can happily eat through loads of biscuits and cakes, I now eat 3 chocolate cream filled eclairs everyday without fail, I know I shouldn't but they taste so damn nice. The only person who makes critical remarks is my mum as she says she doesn't want a fat son and she's tired of buying me bigger and bigger clothes. Like she keeps grabbing my new fat and telling me to get rid. I don't really care about my weight so is this a problem?

Wasteful spending by church?

I agree with you and I respect your using your own brain to determine if this or that is reasonable or not instead of blindly following. Churches are lead by humans, and sometimes humans get off track. You might not be able to run the church, what they do or don't do, but you can certainly control your own pocketbook to fund only the things that are useful and wise.

Do i owe abuser a phone call at delivery....?

Think of your baby. Is he the kind of father you want to influence and help raise your child? I was abused growing up and the best part of my childhood was in foster care. My suggestion is to let him know that you are having the baby, let him be there if he wants and if you want, then send him pictures and give him updates. I would not suggest letting him teach your baby that it is ok to be abusive, or give him the possibility of abusing your baby. As my grandma always tells me "a woman can find a way to do anything."

What are some exercises I can do to tighten/tone my stomach?

Hey do sit ups not just the standard ones there are a lot of variations that work the top and bottom half of you abs more check out youtube or something. Kettlebells are really good too.

Help this GIRL is confusing me!?

Ask her what she thinks about bi sexuals? Her answer will tell you alot. Then tell her that your opinion is that you are pure het.

Do i owe abuser a phone call at delivery....?

Please change the key to your house. Let him know he is a wrong number if he ever tries to contact you.

I want to adopt another babby from a 3rd world country but there are some problems?

Since our government is so incompetent by the time I get my 2nd babby that I want to adopt from El Salvador (which I think is somewhere in Mexico) he will be 23. What should I do? But another one off the black market or make a coalition for change on this? What say you?

Please mark essay on Adversity in Shawshank Redemption.?

I like it, although I can't see all of it! And there is one more thing you wrote: In the film The Shawshank Redemption, the Shashank Redemption is a book, written by King, So not a film makes a character but King :)

Why do people feel the need to call you out of your name over petty things?

So I wrote on this persons YA wall and I said she was racist without the lol because her question sounded that way but I really was only playing just to see an reaction and then they wrote on one of my questions and called me a dumb *** but anyone who knows me knows that I'm far from dumb so I respond back with kindness but I really just don't understand people.

How to deal with a teacher that thinks you cheated?

This is my fault but I didn't realize he would do this. Instead of going right after class to discuss why I had lost points unnecessarily (his ta's grade them so they took off points when they weren't supposed to on my test.). The first thing he points out is that my answers look "erased" and he told me that he would check with the TA since she remembers everything and she takes photocopies blah blah. He was trying to threaten me and I said okay check with your TA because I didn't cheat and then says that "oh I don't think you cheat but that has happened before.". Um wtf? Contradicting himself?? Then, when class started he told everyone to write in pen and everyone was angry and he says, "Sorry that ONE student had to ruin it for all of you." He mean me and this is a MATH/STATS class where I need to erase on my quizzes. This is completely unfair/unjust. He falsely accuses me of cheating. I'm going to talk to him today to see if he did talk to the TA and if he thinks I cheated and gives me a 0 what can I do? No on trusts students, the board would probably agree with him since he has been teaching for a long time. So frustrating!

Atheists: Have you ever played the good samaritan?

When I talk to atheists, most of them say they have good morals (or at least some kind of civil decency) towards other fellows. And for those who say morality is a concept, or say nothing is good or evil we make it so, in my opinion that's extremely backwards thinking and quite degenearate. Back to topic, have you ever done a genuine deed of kindness towards another fellow? Even if he was religious or whatever.

My ex husband moved out of state and now harasses me more now?

My ex husband move to Colorado from texas. we have a 2 year old together when he was living here he left me alone about how i was raising our son. Now that he have moved he text me everyday telling that i did this wrong or that wrong. He doesn't pay child support I support our son on my own. I don't feel that he is a fit parent either i really want full custody cause me boyfriend wants to adopt my son what would i have to have to get that done also

Am looking for someone to sponsor my trip?

Am an orphan living in kenya,female aged 23.all my life i have struggled in this country and the situation isnt getting any better,no opportunities for the poor like us.i would really like to relocate to usa to look for better future but financing my trip is the problem,if there is someone or a family out there in usa to help i would really appreciate. I can even work for them after relocating to repay the kindness.thanks to you all

Pakistan coaches Bin Laden wife to avoid answering questions. Flawed interogation?

Pakistan destroyed America's chances on getting intelligence by making the US wait unnecessarily before being allowed to interrogate. This meant possible loss of data that could have been time sensitive. Also, Pakistan insisted all three wives be interrogated together rather than individually- a highly suspect and unusual request. This never happens as interrogations will never work under these conditions. And finally they insisted they will be present throughout the entire duration- again an unusual and highly suspect move. Even if Pakistan didn't help with UBL's capture they could at least assist with the interrogation. Who's side are they really on after 20 billion in aid?

Me and my partner have two of our own children but are thinking we would now like to adopt?

Me and my partner are both 23 and have two daughters, some people may think this is shallow but we would love to adopt a boy. These are just very first thoughts, but what are the chances that we would be excepted to adopt?

Why is it SO DIFFICULT for people to learn the difference between "your" and "you're"?

Your predicted response is correct!! Believe it or not, there are people out there who just don't care... I'm sorry but I have better things to do with my time than spell check everything I write. It doesn't bother me, and if it bothers you, that's YOUR problem! Not mine!

Does it seem like anti feminist/misoginyst men?

Are a lot more unreasonable/unnecessarily angry than feminist women and men on GS? I've only been on here a few days but that's how it looks thus far... Or are they all just trolls?

How to get this baby to enjoy me? ?

The family I babysit recently adopted a 13 month old baby from China. I have not been associated with the child yet. I was wondering what were some things I could do so the baby enjoys my presence and feels safe around me. I want the mother to be impressed and trust me with her child. Any advice helps. Thanks!

Is my friend correct, or just an annoying anal-retentive grammar nazi?

There shouldn't be a comma inside the quotes for just a single word or term within a larger sentence that is not a quote. You were right. Any grammarian who disagrees doesn't understand the basics of language. The only reason for putting a comma before a quotation mark is if the entire sentence is composed of a quotation.

Weird question- What do other pregnant ladies wear?

When I was pregnant I wore a lot of yoga pants, tanktops, shorts, and sweaters. I didn't want to wear maternity clothes during my pregnancy so I just wore normal clothes a couple sizes up. Whenever I was home alone I walked around in my bra and shorts really. I got to hot with clothes on sometimes. After my twins, I went back to wearing clothes again which was a relief because I was afraid I would never fit in them again. Yea, if maternity clothes are expensive over there I would just wear normal clothes in bigger sizes.

Please help with a prayer to help let go of anger and resentment against my coworkers?

Are there any prayers out there that help with dealing with resentment and anger towards my coworkers. I am dealing with the situation(which is long but has to do with them not doing their work on purpose out of spite) with as much loving kindness as I can but inside i am angry and feel like they need a lesson shown. I'm all alone nobody is helping me, I have no support. There is one co worker who hates me and will do anything to make me mad, because i am in charge...I need to let go of resentment and anger towards this whole situation. I work with mean people and the anger i'm feeling is interferring with me living my life in a peaceful way.

ISLAMIC RULE & PROXIMITY in India--What about example of well flourishing HINDUISM under its cover?

responding to RNPKB: In Pakistan all the relics of Hindu era are well preserved at the State expense. To name a few' Katas Raj Mandir (said to be the oldest in SubContinent) ; Sita Kund, Laxman Kund (pronounced here as Lachchman);Ram Kund; Mata Hanglaj Mandir where Sri Ram Chandar went for Ashirbad before proceedin on to Runn of Kutch Island (mis-understood as the present day Sri Lanka). The birth place of Sri Ram Chandar called Ajudhan Ajudhia in the past now called PakPattan has been upgraded to a District Head Quarter status. It is a brief account. Exclusive Funds are budgeted for scholarship to nonMuslims. . . who have occupied positions of Minister in Center and provinces, Chief Justice of Pakistan, Generals in Army and Police, Ambassadors, Civil and Military Officers, Professors, Doctors, Academicians, Members of national sports' teams .. .. .. I have not mentioned Sikh relics equally well preserved and honoured. There are good persons in both the countries.

Guinea Pig Decision Help?

So, i've had my male guinea pig Spud for about 2-3 years. Ever since we adopted him at 3 months old, my other guinea pig Demetri never seemed to like him. We have kept them in different cages their entire lives. Demetri seems fine with it but i've started to notice Spud has been lonely. He's very well tempered and the sweetest thing. I know guinea pigs are herd animals and they should be together but these two can't seem to get along. I've started considering that I should return Spud to the adoption agency we got him from so he could have a another chance to a happier life. We treat him like royalty here but I can't stand the fact that he's still not deserving the life he should be having. The only thing i'm worried about is the way they'll treat him in a new home if he even gets re-adopted. He's pretty old and adopters look for young guinea pigs most of the time. Also, it's breaking my heart to think that he may be abused or unhappy in his new home. Please help, opinions or ideas would be great! Thanks.

For the love of God please answer this!?

Ok, so we are both 16 and she is my first girlfriend. She has only dated one other guy, but it wasn't serious and it was back in grade 9. So, we have been going out for a little over a week and been on two real dates. We have been really good friends before we were dating for almost 7 months so it wasn't really jumping into something super surprising or new, seeing as how we were already very comfortable with eachother before we started dating. Last week, us and our friends got together and drank. The next morning I check my phone and there is a text saying that she really wanted to kiss me, but wanted our first time to be sober for both of us. This wasn't a drunk text, but she also isn't a whore and I don't want to make a move and have it be too soon for and complicate our relationship unnecessarily. So, how long should I wait. I don't want her to get impatient, but also don't want to jump the gun. If she wants to, will she maybe make the first move or is that up to me?

How can I be less of a pushover?

I'm just TOO compassionate. I'm nice to people that really don't deserve it. If someone asks me to grab something from across the room that they are too lazy to get, I'll do it without even thinking. I have comebacks and it's not like people can bully me, I can get vicious when I'm mad. but I'm rarely mad ever, and I'm just such a pushover most of the time and I'm too nice. I'm so nice that those people who aren't very liked by others cling to me and being around people I dont like makes me miserable but I dont have the heart to say no to anyone. I CAN say no, but i just dont have the heart to stand up to someone and tell them to leave me alone because they are annoying. I wish I had that kind of confidence because there are a lot of annoying people who do cling to me and I hate it. People take advantage of my kindness and I rarely think of myself and my feelings. I only think about others, only just a little too much. I feel bad for people too much and do things that dont necessarily work out for ME in the end and gets me in awkward situations. How do I fix this?!

Ugh , I dislike my mom .?

where do i start she a pain in the butt every since i've moved to oklahoma we been fighting so much she so Freaking annoying when i do something good she never recognized it , But all the bad stuff i did since 2nd grade she stills brings that up and im 13 well gonna be 14 in july 16 and like i run a tumblr and i have two to show my girly side and the other one to show the girl who is intrest in gory horror stuff she got mad at looking at my tumblr that she was like I DISOWN YOU . she always threaten me to send me off to africa . . w/ my dad and basically I dont have a good relationship with anyone in my family I HATE MY LIFE SO MUCH , like i wanna be adopted by another family cause everyday is a fight about something different and since she works at a psychologist hospital she gets soo much patients my age and she so scared like she scared about weed and she thinks energy drinks etc are bad -__- like OMG i dislikee her !

OMG OMG I just found out I have a twin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

I can't even believe this my mom just told me I have a twin brother who was adopted by my aunt when we were babies!!!!!! I am so angry that my mom didn't want an extra baby but I cant wait to meet him OMG!!!!!!!!!!!

Light Sensor Circuit Breaker?

I would like to create a situation whereby, if it is bright enough outside, then my childs bedroom light cannot be switched on unnecessarily. Any helpful suggestions welcome.

What Laptop/Notebook do you think is comparable to the ASUS NX Series.. Specs/Looks/Hardware and all?

there are a lot of computers i want a new computer laptop i have several now i knew what i wanted but i went to a large computer store and tried several changed my mind and got some thing i would not of even considered. go to a store and try the computers out you might find some thing great.

Why won't they legalize gay marriage in some places in the world?

Isn't it the same as two people who are of different gender getting married together, except that they can't have kids (unless they want to adopt some of their own)? I find it weird. o.O

I'm pretty sure a "straight" girl is flirting with me... could I just be imagining it?

She is crushing on you. Maybe she wants to try things out with you. Keep flirting. Ask her out. It might be the best thing ever for both of you. Good luck. God bless.

Are golden retrievers like border collies? 10 points!?

I have a friend who has a border collie and I am planning to adopt a golden. I have taken care of the border collie many times, and I want to know if GR are like Border Collies. What is the same and what is different about them? Thanks! 10 points best answer!

Can someone please help me with my punctuation, PLEASE?

Currently I have joined the Open Universities Psychological Society, which I’m deeply enthusiastic about. During the summer I am hoping to attend an applied psychology conference at Warwick University. This will prove an invaluable experience as I will have the opportunity to learn about the latest research being undertaken from experts. I am particularly interested in learning more about the developmental neuropsychology of autism spectrum disorder as well as childhood anxiety disorders, the challenges deaf children face in learning to read and write, problems faced by children with working memory difficulties and how these children can be identified and assisted. This appeals to me as I personally feel that it’s absolutely crucial to identify and understand children who experience poor short term memory problems. This is because misunderstanding these children will have negative effects on their self confidence; leave them struggling unnecessarily which will ultimately result in underachievement. At the same time I also look forward to discovering more about Meiser-Stedman’s research into children with PTSD.

Is the police state coming to you like it has in Indiana?

Wow, that's crazy. I can't believe people are willing to give up their liberty to be free. The irony is they will end up having neither. I sort of twisted this from Ben Franklin.

I'm pan but I want a kid when I'm older?

Hi everyone. I'm a pansexual and I'm in love with my best friend who is bisexual. She sends me lots of love songs and told me she's in love with a girl and I'm about 80% sure it's me because I'm the closest girl to her. :'3 I want to ask her out, but I'm scared of what she will say. This weekend we're going to the park and I plan on asking her if she'd like to be my girlfriend. I know it's not the most romantic thing, but I'm really busy for the next few weeks and we can't really do anything except for the park because it was pre-planned. But the problem is, is that I live in America and gay marriage isn't allowed in here except for a few states. I would love to move to one of those, but there are issues that I don't wish to talk about. . . So I want to move to Canada with her. After highschool's out, I want to propose to her. But there's one problem: I can't give birth because she isn't a male. >.< I want to adopt a little girl but I've heard it could take a long time and lots of money, so I'm reluctant. Should I risk the money and adopt a child or just give it up? .. D: I'm sorry. I'm just confused from love. Help me, please. Should I really propose to her after I'm finished with college? Should I adopt a child if I do end up getting my perfect fantasy? Thanks. :).

I have a cat litter box question?

I help with a rescue and have 6 cats currently (All spayed and neutored). All the cats have some kind of special needs. I love every one of them dearly they are my four-legged kids LOL. Here is the question what automatic litter box would you say is best for this many cats and depending on what the needs are can have two or three more so let me know please. The six cats will never be able to be adopted so I will keep them unless a proper home is found and where I live that is very slim it would ever happen. The chance of me giving these animals up are slim to nil though because I have had all six of them over a year. LOL Thank you ahead of time for answering this, I appreciate it very much. A side note I have a huge house plus the cats have their own room to play and romp around. They have 4 or 5 huge cat trees so FYI these cats are taking very very very good care of. DO NOT BASH YOU WILL BE DELETED!!!!!! TY and God Bless

Two English questions?

Confound means to confuse or make worse. You should say "I don't trust anyone until they are proven me" and overwhelmed means to much to withstand so you should say "She was touched by her neighbors kindness".

Adding albums to Media Player?

Is there a simple logical method to add an album to Windows Media Player? If I have several songs and want to make them into an album, how do I do this? I can play them in my playlist, but I want to view them as an album. Why is this programme so unnecessarily complicated!!!

My mom just doesnt understand fairness? Family Problems?

You know, you should probably just go talk to her about it. Or if not, perhaps get more involved. Try asking questions or discussing things with her that require her attention and input. Maybe there just isn't much to talk about cause you don't open up so instead of silence and awkwardness she moves on. Maybe she is just trying to respect your privacy. Then she might be more understanding, and less reactive.

How to handle when u like your friends bf and think he likes you back.?

I've liked this guy since about the eighth grade. Since then hes been dating my friend. Im now a sophomore. Lately hes been EXTREMELY flirty including hugging me unnecessarily tightly including putting his hand over my chest area, putting his arm around me, and doing cute little things in thr hallway at school like blowing my hair. Last year we sort of had a thing, he and my friend even broke up over me. I thoughtvi was over him but its even more clear to me that i feel like hes who im supposed to be with. Were also going to the same college. What should i do? I know youre probably thinking im a jerk for even considering goig for him but him and my friend have broken up over four times in the past two years and theyre constantly fighting.

Will a salon colour hair you've bleached at home yourself?

Completely depends on the salon. Most will however some won't generally if you have done your hair at home they will do it, but make you sign a wavier basically saying you know the risk of what could happen to your hair if the drugstore chemical doesn't react well with the salon dye. I have had had a similar situation happen to me when I first started dying my hair on my own and wasn't as experienced with certain dyes I had even used the same brand as you and in a red shade I then bleached it out went to the salon and they were able to fix it to a nice a honey blonde that I had wanted at the time, I did sign a wavier like I said though.

What do you think of my story - Harry the lemur? :) Do you like it? .... . . .?

You've put new paragraphs in, that's a start but you still need to work on showing instead of just telling, and remember new lines each time a different character speaks.

Jennifer Hudson. Like her, but hate commercial re weight loss. Do you like hearing her scream like that?

Every time I hear her on that commercial, I cringe and mute her. It just seems so unnecessarily loud that she doesn't even sound like a singer!!

Are Papillions generally good-natured dogs?

I'm thinking of adopting a Papillion and was wondering if in general they are good-natured. I know every individual dog has a slightly different personality but there are general tendencies. I currently have a Pomeranian and while I love him, he's very opinionated and likes things his way. I'm looking for a dog that's a bit less like this, but also outgoing and affectionate.

My dog won't stop pooping in the house... Help >,<?

every time he poops outside give him/her a treat and praise her so she/he would no that if she uses outside she would get a treat, and if she uses it inside punish him/her so she would no that if she uses it outside she would get a treat and if she uses inside he/she would get in trouble.

Is my girl cheating on me?

my fiancee, Macca, is bi. recently she met another girl at a party and they become very close very fast. Macca goes into the bassement and shuts the door to talk to this girl on the phone and when she comes back upstairs sshes all giggly and smiley. shes even avoiding the subject of this girl in front of her 13 year old son, which is a red flag. also Macca is 27 and this other girl is 22. i dont think shes particulaly attracitvie either, Macca is like way out of her league. they were grinding on each other at the party. Macca has pix on her laptop. i cant tell if its a really good friend ship or if Macca might be cheating on me. this would brake my heart because i love Macca with all my heart and were supposed to get married next summer. if shes cheating i wont dump her but ill be heart broken. im afraid shes cheating because we cant have kids i was upset about it. she doesnt want any but i did and i think shes trying to get back at me cuz we had a big argument. either way shes incappable of having any. her son is adopted. anyways. if shes cheating with a chick i dont know how we'd explain it to her kid. can some one plz help?! i love her so so much, i dont know what to do... :(

How do I convince my parents to let my boyfriend sleep over?

who cares what your parents think when your21?! your parents can tell you what to do until u turn 18. do whateva ya want!(:

How can I ignore this and go on with my life?

Simply ignore it, because one day those people may not be remembered and they will have their own life they chose to be. If these people piss you off, just stay as their acquaintances and nothing more. It will only be for the time being, and yes - they will learn the right way, they just haven't realized what is the right way yet. Or maybe they wont realize it, that's really their decision. But don't be angered by them, don't worry about them, worry about yourself. That you will be a better person, that you will be caring, socially aware, and competent. Hope this helped. (:

Is there a website (Other than apple app store or Open app mkt) to get apps ?

Alright , so , let me tell you people whats going on . So , I'm looking for a website that enables me to get free apps , other than app store (From apple). I thought that this thing called "Open app market" would help me achieve this VERY unnecessarily hard goal , but , after I got like 50 "Apps" I find out that there really just bookmarks to sites where you play the games , thus , I'd need to have internet EVERYwhere I go , which I don't (I use an ad-hoc connection) have. This made me sooo God-damned mad I swear I wanted to shoot myself . So , Bottom line , I need a site thats not Apple app store or open app market to get apps for my Ipod touch.

LAPD Appeal Denied - What Now?

I have a question regarding what happens after the review panel has seen an appeal and denies it. Let me give some insight as how I got to this point. I have been going through the hiring process with LA City since Dec 09, experiencing various delays along the way but I remained dedicated to the process. I have been successful throughout the entire process up until my psych interview when it was determined that I neglected to mention a previous work injury (approx 10 years ago) during my medical evaluation. My medical appointment was before I even had a sit down meeting with my BI, so from a medical standpoint I don't even think of this injury simply because it has been non issue for almost 9 years. When I met with my BI I did disclose the work injury to account for time out of work and workers comp payments received. The Background department checked into the injury and my claim against my previous employer and deemed it to be legitimet and cleared me from the background process. My medical exam went flawlessly, they would have never known I had the injury if I didn't mention it; I passed all aspects of their testing components. As a result, I appealed this decision to remove me from the process; they based their initial decision on a concern of my integrity. With my appeal I submitted approx 13 letters of recommendation / referrence from friends in various occupations ranging from police officers to doctors and city attorneys - there was even one from the Govenor's office. My oversight of mentioning this work injury during my medical process was not an intention to decieve in any way, it just is something that is far from my mind - medically speaking. Perhaps if I had the interview with my BI first it would have been more in the front of my mind since I disclosed it to them. Ok, here's my question - if the appeal was denied how do you keep fighting? I'm a firm believer that if something is worth having it is absolutely worth fighting for. I'm fighting for my career and a better life for my family so I have every incentive to push as much as I can. The interesting part about this is the background department is on my side, they believe this to be a technicality that medical services decided to blow up unnecessarily. I'm willing to do whatever, write to whoever, I just need some advise and direction. Any help anyone can provide will be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance for your time and help.